The 29th October 2023 would have been our twentieth anniversary of being together.  Like, the first time we kissed (when I have sometimes told some people about our two anniversaries, they have genuinely seemed to have been hung up on what I meant by getting together, so I'm just being

This post is about 'Boom and Bust' cycles of energy, and how people (especially those with noticiable constraints on their energy levels) can push themselves so hard when they do have energy, that they simply crash into a new low.  I'm using energy levels as a catch-all term here.  This

I thought about just making this post the words "Siobhan believed in green cats".  But I'll attempt to pad that idea out a little bit.  There were a few things that one or the other of us wouldn't understand about how the other understood the world.  And one of these

I ring the buzzer at the front door to the close, I get buzzed in, and then Siobhan opens the door.  I'm drenched from the incredibly heavy rain outside.  I hold out my hand and say "do you want this can of Coke?".  She didn't, but the reason I had

I've just got back home to Marsden after visiting Scotland, with lots of memories brought back just from the drive.  Driving is still quite strange for me now, especially long distances.  Siobhan couldn't sit in the front seat of the car, because the movement from the traffic and the road